It's Only Natural to Wonder...
After a while in any relationship, you may start thinking about things in that relationship that tell you it is more than one you have had in the past. While no one can tell you for sure if they are the one for you, your soul mate, there are some signs that will point to them being the right one for you.
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While relationships do have to be worked on, the right person for you will want the same things from life that you do and will work with you to build your relationship together.
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1. You know you can be yourself around themWhen you are with your soulmate you don’t feel pressured to be anyone or anything but yourself. Much of the time we put parts of ourselves aside and put on various masks, presenting to the world a face that we want them to see. However, with your soulmate it will be different. You will feel like you don’t have to hide parts of yourself from them just to make things work with.
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2. Everything you do together doesn’t have to be plannedSpending time together doesn’t have to be an event. Yes, you still have nights out and plan things to do together. However just hanging out, running errands, and simply spending time together is enough for both of you to be happy.
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3. Your family likes them tooWhile what you think will always be the most important thing, one always positive sign that they are the one is when your family and friends like them too. Your family and friends will always want the best for you. When they see that the two of you work well together and approve of how they treat you it’s a good sign that you have fond someone to spend the rest of your life with.
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4. You can both admit when you make a mistakeThings will never be perfect one hundred percent of the time. There are eventually going to be times when you disagree and get into an argument. It is how you both handle these times that will really show you how well your relationship is going. The best relationships, ones that you are truly meant to be in, are the ones where you can admit to the mistakes that you both make and focus on resolving the problem, not on being right.
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5. Your relationship is neither rushed, nor does it go too slowWhen it comes to how quickly relationships develop there can be problems when the go too fast or too slow. If a relationship develops too quickly your partner may be more interested in the idea of falling in love, not with you specifically. Conversely, if a relationship is moving too slowly then they may be trying to string you along as they make up their mind about what they want. Neither is helpful nor healthy to you. However, if you both can maintain your own lives, seeing each other often, maybe a few times a week, it makes it much more likely that you are forming a genuine connection with them.
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6. They walk the walk and talk the talkOne of the most important things that they can do is to back up what they say with their words. There are things that they say and there are things that they do. When someone says that they care about you and that they want to spend time with you, they should be willing to make time for it. If they don’t then this should be a huge warning sign. However, if what they say and what they do match up, then it is a good sign that you are with someone special.
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7. They are truly kind to youThere are many things that you may be looking for in a relationship, you may have an idea of what the one will be like however there’s one thing that they will personify, kindness. Look at how they treat, not just you but others as well. If they are willing to dismiss how other people feel or their contributions, then they will likely do the same to you. If they are a kind and caring to others around them as well as you it is a good indicator of how they will treat you in the future.
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8. They want to listen to youThere are many things that are important to a relationship, however one of the most important ones is listening. When you have something to say they will listen and hear what you are saying and lend you a kind ear whenever you need it. Without brining their own issues into the conversation.
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9. They put in just as much effort as youThey care about they relationship just as much as you do and put in just as much effort as you do. They do things for you to show you that they care about how you feel and show you through their actions that your relationship is important to them.
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10. You can trust them with personal thingsWhen you find your soulmate, they can be trusted with personal things like difficult memories and experiences that you have been through. When you can trust your partner with these things, and they respect the trust that you have placed in them by sharing these things with them it is another positive sign that you have found the right person.
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11. It feels like you have known them foreverWhen with the right person it sounds cliché, however you will fee like you have known them forever. You are comfortable with them, and you feel like you can be yourself around them immediately. It’s not just lust or a desire to sleep with them, its more and you feel a real intimacy with them that is more than simple sexual desire.
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12. The relationship feels different from other onesYou may have had different relationships in the past, however this one feels different from the others that you have had in the past. There is an almost undefinable quality in this one that makes you feel that you have found the one.
There are many things that you can look for in a relationship to know if they are your soulmate. These are just a few signs that you can look for in your relationship to know if it the one. Ultimately only you can know if you are with the right person for you. All we can say is that when you know you will know, everything will be telling you that you are with the right person. All you need to do is listen to the signs around you and you will find your answer.
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